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How To Help Your Young Children Become The Best Version Of Themselves

As a parent, you will always want the best for your children. Fortunately, there are plenty of steps that you can take to help make this possible, ensuring that they grow to become the best version of themselves.

From helping them to strengthen their strategic thinking abilities to discovering hobbies they generally love, read on to find out how you can help your children grow in both skill and confidence!

Praise your child. While this may seem fairly obvious, one of the easiest ways to help your child grow in confidence is to offer consistent, genuine praise. Not only will this make them feel better about themselves, but studies have found that this kind of positive reinforcement can also improve their resilience or willingness to try something new, as it “sends the message that effort and actions are the sources of success, leading children to believe they can improve their performance through hard work.”

Teach them to be patient. Teaching your children to be patient can help to develop a range of useful skills, such as empathy and resilience. Not only that, but patience can also help to regulate negative emotions, such as frustration and anger, which means that they are less likely to act or misbehave. Fortunately, there are many different ways in which you can teach your children to be patient. For example, you could start small by saying that they can watch TV in five minutes, as opposed to turning it on right away. This shows them that waiting and being patient have their rewards!

Help them discover hobbies they enjoy. Hobbies are important at any stage in life, but particularly so during childhood. This is because they help children to develop a host of skills that will not necessarily be covered in the classroom or at nursery. For example, football classes for 3 year olds can not only help improve their mobility and agility, but will also show them the power of working as part of a team for the first time. This, in turn, can help strengthen their social skills and ability to make friends.

Let them make mistakes. Many children are afraid to make mistakes due to a fear of letting their parents down. This is a mindset that you must actively work to dispel by letting them know that mistakes are just a part of life. One way in which you can achieve this goal is by admitting to your own mistakes and shortcomings. However, instead of framing them as something entirely negative, instead say what you learned because of this mistake. This way, your children will begin to view mistakes as a learning opportunity and not the end of the world.

You should also make it clear that if they have made a mistake, this is something that you can help them with. This way, they are much more likely to open up to you should they need help.

Encourage them to talk openly about their emotions. Encouraging your child to talk openly and honestly about how they are feeling will also help them to grow into the best version of themself. This is because it will sharpen their emotional intelligence, while also helping them to understand “big” feelings or emotions that they may be experiencing for the first time.

Again, one of the easiest ways in which you can encourage this behavior from your children is to lead by example. For example, you could spend a little time each evening talking about your day and how certain things made you feel (good and bad). You can then ask your child to do the same. If they express a negative emotion, try to help them understand why they feel that way, and put together a plan they can follow to help them feel better moving forward.

On a similar note, you should help your child find as many ways as possible to express themselves. For example, some children find it easier to express themselves through crafts, such as painting and drawing over their words, especially in their younger years. Older children may find keeping a diary or journal to be similarly beneficial.

Help them develop their strategic thinking skills. Strategic thinkers are able to rise above challenges, whether that’s in school or the workplace. For this reason, finding effective ways for kids to develop strategic thinking skills is another great way to shape the adult they’ll become for the better. This can be achieved through:

Playing games that encourage them to think strategically, such as Chess, Risk and Checkers.
Solving puzzles, such as word searches or Sudoku, together as a family.
Encouraging them to ask questions when they do not understand something.
Prompting them to think deeply about the things they are learning about by asking questions.

Let them be children. Letting children simply be children is another great way to help your child become the best (and the happiest) version of themselves. While extracurricular activities are beneficial, they should not take up the bulk of your children’s time, especially in their younger years. Instead, you should ensure that they spend most of their time playing, which is more crucial for healthy child development than you may initially realise. For example, through playing make-believe, they “learn to navigate challenges and understand cause-and-effect relationships.”

Encourage them to learn an instrument. Learning to play an instrument is another great way to help your child develop a whole host of skills. For example, it can improve everything from their cognitive ability to their coordination skills, whether they are learning to play the guitar or the drums. Ideally, you should let them choose which instrument they’d like to play. This ensures that they are as enthusiastic as possible about the idea of attending music classes, as opposed to feeling as though this is something they are forced to do.

You should also make sure that you offer them support when practicing, even if they don’t sound all that great to begin with. After all, learning to play an instrument takes time, and while they may have a natural skill, it could be a little while before they are able to play all that well.

Teach your child to be responsible. Teaching your children to be responsible is also key in helping them to become the best versions of themselves moving forward. Fortunately, there are many ways in which you can ensure that you are raising responsible children. For example, you could start by assigning them weekly, age-appropriate chores in order to get their pocket money or receive a reward. When they do not hold up their end of the bargain, do not give them the reward. This shows them that their actions have clear consequences and will encourage them to be more responsible moving forward.

Welcoming a pet into your home is another great way to teach your children to be more responsible, though it is not a decision you should make lightly. You should make sure that both your children and you are ready to take on this challenge and provide the pet with the love and care that it deserves. Remember, it is a living being with complex needs, not a learning opportunity.

Spend quality time with them. Spending quality time with your children will also play a key role in their development and overall self-esteem. This is because spending time together shows your children that they are valued and loved, while also strengthening the bond you share. As such, you should make sure that you always set aside some time in your day for your children. When you’re working, this can be as simple as watching an episode of their favoirte TV show together, or sitting down at the dining room table to eat tea together as opposed to eating separately.

At the weekend, you have a few more options to choose from, whether you’re spending a sunny day at the park or visiting a local museum.

Final thoughts. As a parent, you will always want what is best for your child. Fortunately, there are plenty of steps that you can take now to put them in the best possible position as they grow before your eyes. For example, you can help your children to become the best possible versions of themselves by:

Praising them, especially when they are putting themselves outside of their comfort zone.
Teaching them to be patient so that they can regulate their emotions.
Helping them to discover hobbies that they genuinely enjoy
Letting them make mistakes so that they can learn from them
Encouraging them to talk openly about their emotions
Helping them to develop their strategic thinking and problem-solving skills
Letting them be children so that they can learn through play
Encouraging them to learn an instrument
Teaching them to be responsible and to hold themselves accountable
Spending as much quality time with them as possible

Following the guidance outlined above will ensure that your child has the best start in life, especially if you continue to shower them with love throughout.

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Mastering Strategy Early: Fun and Effective Ways for Kids to Develop Strategic Thinking

Strategic thinking isn’t limited to the boardroom. Children can develop it early through activities that enhance their planning, anticipating, and problem-solving capabilities. Engaging your children in such activities helps form life-long habits of success that may even make learning fun. In this blog post, we will look at some innovative and fun strategies for kids to practice strategic thinking.

Why Strategy Matters for Kids

Strategic thinking helps children recognise the significance of making informed decisions, taking into account possible consequences, and planning ahead. Strategy equips children with important analytical, organizational and adaptive abilities. From managing resources in games and social situations to taking on challenging homework problems, strategy provides them with important abilities such as analysis, organisation and adaptability. By practicing strategic thinking, children gain perseverance, discipline, and creativity, qualities which will serve them throughout their lives. Not only are these abilities crucial to academic achievement, they’re also great for problem-solving, teamwork, and realising personal goals. Encouraging kids early to adopt this mindset gives them confidence and resilience against future obstacles while turning obstacles into opportunities to develop themselves and reach success.

The Power of Play

Play is one of the best ways to teach children strategy. Kids tend to learn best when having fun, and many games encourage strategic thinking naturally.

Board Games That Build Minds

Time-honored classics such as Chess, Checkers and Risk are effective means for teaching children to think ahead, anticipate opponents’ moves and manage complex situations. But don’t stop with traditional board games. Modern titles like Ticket to Ride, Carcassonne and Catan provide valuable lessons in resource management as well as long-term planning in an entertaining environment. Even simpler titles like Connect Four and Uno require them to consider carefully their next move. View each game as an opportunity to practice patience, consider options and create winning strategies.

Video Games Aren’t Just Fun

Contrary to what many believe, video games can also serve as an excellent platform for teaching strategy. Minecraft promotes creativity while Civilisation introduces resource allocation and decision-making. Even battle royale games or puzzle-based adventures offer kids the chance to practice anticipating outcomes and refining problem-solving skills. Minesweeper is one such example that encourages both strategic thinking and logical deduction. Plus, digital mediums often engage kids more readily than traditional methods, just be sure to balance screen time with offline activities to maintain healthful results.

Strategy in Action

Beyond games, there are daily opportunities to help children develop strategic thinking abilities.

Puzzle Solving

Puzzles offer children an engaging way to discover patterns, think creatively and form strategies while exercising their minds and building problem-solving skills, not to mention increasing confidence with every successful solution. They can also be tailored specifically to different age groups and abilities so everyone can participate and benefit. From assembling picture pieces or solving challenging riddles, puzzles provide fun yet stimulating exercises designed to help form cognitive growth while also spark curiosity among young learners.

Everyday Problem-Solving

Real world scenarios like planning a family outing or making choices at the grocery store provide excellent opportunities to introduce strategy into everyday situations. You could ask your child for assistance in selecting an efficient route or finding deals in store. These practical problem-solving opportunities bring strategy into their life easily and accessibly.

Active Learning Through Sports and Teamwork

Sports provide children an ideal venue for practicing strategy as they collaborate, adapt, and anticipate in a team environment.

Individual and Team Sports

Sports like soccer, basketball and ten n is provide children with ample opportunity to practice quick decision making under pressure and long-term mental agility. Children learn how to analyse opponents, respond under pressure and adjust tactics quickly without losing focus. An invaluable lesson in flexibility. Other individual sports, like martial arts or gymnastics emphasise goal setting while using tactical thinking for improved performance.

Group Projects and Classroom Work

School assignments provide another means of helping kids develop strategic thinking skills. Give your child leadership roles within tasks to encourage them to develop plans, evaluate options, and coordinate their team. Although not as thrilling as playing kickball games, similar principles apply and can sharpen strategy even in academic environments.

Learning From Stories

Young minds can be deeply influenced by stories and narratives. So why not use them to facilitate strategic thinking?

Books, History, and Role-Playing

Introduce books or historical accounts that focus on strategic moments to spark curiosity and help form brainstorming sessions. Alternatively, consider role-playing games where children “step into” other people and learn to make plans and decisions through simulation of real-life situations. Dungeons & Dragons games can be especially effective here.

Encourage Reflection

Reflective thinking is just as integral to strategic thinking as making decisions. Without it, kids might never learn from past errors or improve upon future strategies.

Journaling and Tracking Progress

Encourage your child to keep a journal of all of the games they played, challenges they experienced, lessons they learned, and self-awareness activities they do each day. Doing this allows them to reflect upon their experiences, understand how their strategies change with time, identify patterns in their thinking patterns that need improving upon, as well as new approaches for improvement. Journaling helps form self-awareness and critical thinking allowing kids to celebrate achievements while reflecting upon setbacks as a way of strengthening both their strategic skills as well as their confidence levels over time.

Celebrate Successes (and Failures)

To form an environment in which mistakes are seen as opportunities to grow, celebrate not only your child’s victories but also their creative attempts and efforts. These activities help build resilience and confidence while teaching challenges to be seen as part of learning processes. By rewarding such behaviors with positive reinforcement you help to form their resilience, teaching how to adapt creatively while appreciating both effort and progress as important components.

Conclusion

Strategic thinking is a skill that is developed through practice, so the sooner kids start, the better prepared they’ll be for life’s challenges. From honing skills through games to solving daily life problems or looking back on past decisions, strategy can be found everywhere. Remember not to push your child into becoming an overnight master strategist but rather to form growth through creating opportunities, nurturing curiosity, and keeping things lighthearted. Every great thinker started somewhere.

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Bunny rabbit cookies with royal icing

With Spring almost here, and Easter around the corner, we thought we’d rustle up some rabbit cookies – or bunny biscuits as we’ve named them! It was a great introduction for 9yo to practice his royal icing piping, and ‘flooding in’ – we learnt a LOT about icing technique!

There are LOADS of bunny cookie cutters around at the moment, we had one which was my Mum’s and for the tail you could use a flower cutter, or a small circle…

We used up some royal icing which had been in the fridge for a couple of days, and we have some TOP TIPS for you about this…see below!

Ingredients:

50g fairtrade caster sugar
100g butter
175g plain flour

Method:

Heat the oven to 150 degrees C (300 F, Gas mark 2)
Cream the caster sugar and the butter together, slowly adding the flour, mixing together to form a dough, I find we need to add a couple of drops of water, knead together to form a ball.

Roll out the dough, on a floured surface, to about 4mm thick.
Using your bunny shaped cutter, cut the dough, and place your bunnies and tails on a lightly floured baking tray, and bake for about 20 minutes, until golden brown. (feel free to make some spare rabbit tails… to munch on whilst you’re icing the rabbit cookies!)

As they cool down, you can make your royal icing (recipe here). Or if you are using some icing which you have been keeping in the fridge, as we were, TOP TIP make sure you really really stir the royal icing to get ALL of the lumps out, otherwise it sticks in the piping bag – and clogs the nozzle so that when you are piping the outline it stutters out, and the line will be all wobbly… 9yo wanted a pale brown bunny, so we mixed in his favourite hot chocolate mix, into a portion of the white royal icing and some more Fairtrade icing sugar, so that it’s quite thick to pipe the outlines. When this outline is dry, you add a drop of water to the remaining brown mixture, so that you can spoon it into the outline, and using a cocktail stick, gently ‘flood’ the biscuit, and prick any little bubble that appear.

Pop the ‘tail’ into position whilst the ‘flood in’ icing on the rabbit cookie is still wet, and pipe on the remaining white royal icing to make a fluffy tail!

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For more Spring baking ideas, check out the daffodil cookies here and if you are after some more rabbit crafts have a look at my denim pocket purse with leaping rabbits here (FREE printable) – and watch our latest google+ hangout hosted by Maggy at Redtedart featuring Anthea, Lizzie, myself and Kelly – a great selection of Bunny Crafts!

For easy to follow instructions on how to make a little gift box from a paper plate, perfect for these cookies, please click here.

Ali also blogs over on incredibusy.com and is a new lover of Instagram too… pop over and say hello! This post was first published March 2014

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5 Tips to Be a More Responsible Driver & Stay Safe

Who doesn’t want to be a more responsible driver? It helps you stay safe on the road and offers more than a few benefits. Some of the more notable of these are:

Avoiding accidents on the road.
Reducing your insurance premiums long-term.
Keeping your car running properly.
Giving you greater peace of mind.

You’ve no reason not to put the time and effort into it. That being said, responsible driving isn’t just a matter of putting your seatbelt on. You’ll have to put a lot more work into it.

Thankfully, this doesn’t have to mean it needs to be complicated. It could be a whole lot easier than you’d think. Even if you’ve been in accidents before, there are more than a few ways to be better. In these cases, it could be vital. You just need to know what you’re doing going forward.

Focusing on a few driving tips and looking after your car can be some of the better ways of doing this. Five of these could help a lot more than you’d think. They’re more than worth trying.

Have a Lawyer on standby

As much as you’ll try to avoid car accidents and similar issues, it doesn’t mean they’re always avoidable. Sometimes, you could be the victim in the accident. Another car could crash into yours because of negligence or similar reasons. It’s always worth making sure you’re prepared for this.

One of the better ways to do this is to have a car accident lawyer on-hand for when you need them. You don’t even need to hire them straight away. Instead, just having their contact details for when you need them could be more than enough to help. It’s worth looking for the best one you can afford.

Look For the Right Insurance

While car insurance is mandatory, many drivers don’t put a lot of time and effort into it. They’ll go with the basics and leave it at that. It’s worth putting more time into it than that, though. The more comprehensive your insurance is, the better off you’ll be if you ever get into an accident.

Then there’s the difficulty in getting car insurance if you’ve been in any accidents or have driving convictions. Thankfully, many providers specialise in insuring people with convictions. Insurance Revolution boasts ‘Convicted Driver? We Can Help!’ for a reason. It’s worth putting in the effort into looking for the best provider for you.

Be Proactive With Maintenance

Keeping your car in great shape is key in being a responsible driver, just like with your home and back garden. It’s always worth putting the time and effort into proactive maintenance to help with this. It’ll help you make sure you don’t need to worry about any issues turning up anytime soon. It’s one of the best steps you can take for you and your car.

This doesn’t even need to be too hard. Inspecting your car regularly lets you figure out if anything needs to be addressed. Then there are the smaller steps, like checking your oil and washer water, and rotating your tyres. You’ll end up keeping your car in the best condition possible. You’ve every reason to put the time and effort into it.

Don’t Ignore Warning Signs

Cars have warning signs built into the dashboard. These will light up when there are specific issues with your vehicle. Make sure you know what they mean. Your car owner’s manual should give you all of the information you need to understand them. Take the time to read up on them.

Then there’s the fact it’s worth getting any issues addressed when the warning lights pop up. Red warning lights are the most important, as they highlight large and immediate issues with your car. Even the less important ones should be sorted out relatively quickly.

Get It Serviced Regularly

Looking after your car is a great way to be a responsible driver. There’s only so much you can do yourself, though. It’s always worth getting a professional to check your car out every once in a while, too. It helps to make sure there aren’t any issues you aren’t aware of. You’ve no reason not to get your car serviced.

If there are any issues you aren’t aware of, you can get them sorted out relatively easily. A car service doesn’t need to be that expensive. With how much it can help you when there’s an issue, it’s worth taking the time to do. Get it done every few months to be safe.

Factors to Focus On to Be a More Responsible Driver

These can all help you be a more responsible driver. That doesn’t mean they’re the only areas you should focus on. Instead, it can always be worth developing a few skills and focussing on a few factors while you’re at it. You would’ve learned quite a bit during driving school before.

That doesn’t mean you’ll know everything you need to know. To be a more responsible driver, it’s worth doing a bit extra. Focussing on a few specific areas helps, like:

Being Able to See the Big Picture – You’ll naturally need to focus on the road ahead when you’re driving. That doesn’t mean you should have tunnel vision, though. Make sure you pay attention to your surroundings while you’re at it. This helps you figure out if there are any potential risks on other parts of the road. It’ll help you to stay safe on the road.
Knowing Your Car’s Capabilities – Different vehicles have different capabilities. While that seems obvious, many people overlook their own car’s capabilities. They’re not entirely sure of what their car is capable of. They could overestimate it. Don’t fall into that position. Make sure you know your car’s exact capabilities so you don’t push it too hard.
Learn to Be Patient – There’ll be plenty of times on the road that might test your patience. You could be stuck in a traffic jam. Other drivers could cut you off. These situations, while often unavoidable, shouldn’t cause an aggressive reaction. By learning to be patient, you avoid any instances of road rage and similar issues. These are never good, so be as patient as you can.

These should help you be a better driver without needing to put a lot of time and effort into it. You shouldn’t have a problem staying safe once you’ve worked on them.

Adding them to each of the above strategies helps to make sure you’re as safe on the road as possible. With how much of an impact they can have going forward, you’ve no reason not to put the effort into them. What’s stopping you from trying to become a better driver?

Wrapping Up

It’s always worth trying to be a more responsible driver. You don’t even need to be in any accidents to want to be better. It’ll offer more than a few benefits for you, your car, and even your wallet. It’s just a matter of focusing on the right driving tips and knowing what you’re doing.

While this seems like it’ll take a lot of time and effort, it doesn’t need to. Once you’re focusing on the right areas, it could get easier and easier.

The right strategies should be more than enough to help with this. Then there are the various skills and factors you could work on to be a better driver. Working on these helps make sure your car’s in good condition, while also helping you avoid more than a few accidents. You’ve no reason not to put a bit of effort into them.

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Tips for a Stress-Free Vacation

As much as everyone wants to have a vacation, actually planning one out can be a little stressful. There’ll be a lot to sort out, it’ll cost a decent bit of money, and more. It’s easy to see why so many people get caught up in this and start getting stressed just thinking about it.

That doesn’t mean you can’t plan a stress-free vacation, though. You’ll just have to put the time and effort into the right areas, and there shouldn’t be anything to worry about. Three particular tips could be more helpful than you’d think.

Research Your Destination

Once you’ve decided on somewhere to go, it’s worth taking a little time to research your destination. There are more than a few reasons for this. The most notable is it helps you figure out the best time to go depending on the weather and other factors. It’ll even help you figure out costs.

Then there’s the fact it lets you figure out what you can do when you’re there. Having a general idea of the activities you can try lets you plan out your trip a lot better than you’d think. You’ve no reason not to spend a little time on it.

Avoid the Airport Rush

One of the more stressful parts of a vacation is the airport. You’ll have to worry about security, checking in, figuring out parking, and more. It’s easy to see why so many people get overwhelmed by it. Thankfully, it’s not something you need to settle for, as long as you plan it out right.

You could check in for your flight online, for example. Then there are the apps that help with airport car parking, which are always worth using. They should help you avoid all of the rushing around and stress that’s normally associated with the airport.

Stick to Your Budget

It’s always worth making sure you have a budget for your vacation. That way, you’re much less likely to need to worry about the financial side of everything. This is where many people can get a little stressed. Once you have a firm budget, however, there should be a lot less to worry about.

Be comprehensive when you’re putting this together. Having a specific amount set aside for flights and accommodation. After that, it’s worth having a specific amount set aside for each day’s expenses. Don’t forget to have some money set aside in case any emergencies come up during your vacation.

Everyone deserves to be able to enjoy themselves on vacation. That doesn’t mean there aren’t a few things that could get in the way. You could end up getting stressed trying to plan it all out and actually get out on vacation. You don’t have to settle for that.

By using a few tips, you can plan a stress-free vacation relatively easily. With a little bit of effort, you’ll end up being on vacation without a care in the world. There’s no reason the right tips shouldn’t have an impact on the process.

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The Importance of Play in Child Development

Play is an important part of childhood, with numerous reasons why children need to have fun. It plays a crucial role in social, emotional, cognitive, and physical development, providing kids with the necessary skills to navigate the world. As parents and caregivers, you need to foster a play-friendly environment to support a child’s growth and well-being.

Cognitive Benefits of Play

Play helps develop problem-solving skills, critical thinking, and creativity through activities such as building blocks, imaginative games, and puzzles. Children learn to experiment, engage with their surroundings, and explore. Research shows that unstructured play enhances brain development by promoting neural connections and improving memory and attention span. Additionally, pretend play encourages language development, and storytelling, and helps children expand their vocabulary and communication skills. Whether they’re running a pretend store, acting as superheroes, or playing house, they develop essential cognitive abilities that prepare them for academic success in the future.

Social and Emotional Growth Through Play

Interacting with friends during play teaches children valuable social skills such as conflict resolution, sharing, and cooperation. Group play fosters empathy and teamwork, helping children consider others’ feelings and perspectives. Playing together also aids in developing emotional intelligence, allowing children to express and manage their emotions in a safe environment.

Physical play, such as climbing, jumping, running, and skipping, contributes to stress relief and mood regulation by releasing endorphins. It also provides an outlet for children to channel their energy, reducing anxiety and creating a balanced emotional state, while building confidence.

Creating a Safe and Stimulating Play Area with Artificial Grass or Rubber Chippings

Ensuring that children have a safe and stimulating play area is vital for their well-being. Many schools and nurseries are now turning to artificial grass or recycled rubber chippings, as a practical way to create play areas. Artificial turf provides a soft, durable, and low-maintenance surface for schools, which minimises the risks of injuries and allows children to play freely in any weather condition. Artificial grass also alleviates concerns about uneven surfaces, mud, and injuries, making it an excellent option for schools seeking to create a safe environment for their students. Its cushioned texture provides extra safety by reducing the impact of falls and creating a comfortable play zone for your kids. Consider how artificial grass or recycled rubber chippings can enhance your children’s play experience in school’s high footfall play areas.

Final Thoughts

Play is a crucial component of childhood development, shaping the way children interact, grow, and learn. By encouraging play in safe environments, we support their well-being and equip them with the lifelong skills they need for the future. Whether through cognitive challenges, physical activities, or social interactions, play remains an essential part of a child’s journey toward living a healthy and happy life.

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How to Talk Alcohol to Your Teens

You may already know teenagers are not great at moderating their own use of alcohol. Teenagers are impulsive and you will remember this because you used to be one. They have a tendency to over consume as part of being a teenager and exploring their own limits and that can create big issues for the body and the brain.

As a parent, you may want to wrap your child up in cotton wool and prevent them from ever having a sip of alcohol in their lives, but that’s not realistic, is it? You can talk until you’re blue in the face about the things that can go wrong or the illegalities of alcohol being consumed underage. But unless you are taking to shock tactics talking to them about why they may need a lawyer because they’ve been arrested due to drink driving, or looking up sexual offence solicitors, you’re going to have to find ways to hammer it home while also giving them the space to explore. We all know that drinking is dangerous when it’s consumed too young, and we all know that adults can make bad decisions when it comes to alcohol.

However, it’s important that you talk to your teenagers about alcohol so that they understand what can go wrong and why. Here’s some inspiration:

Be real. If you tried to ban your teenager from drinking, the first thing they’re going to do is find a way to get some alcohol and start drinking. It’s one of those taboo things. They’re going to rebel and they’re going to get go against you. Instead, talk about the consequences of teenage drinking, talk to them about safe teenage drinking and talk to them about what it could lead to: Contracting an STD, having a dependence or an addiction develop very early, impair their reasoning, poison them, create aggressive or fighting behaviour, unplanned sexual activity – the list goes on.

Lead by example. You do have to set the example that as a parent and as an adult, you don’t need to have alcohol in your life to be fulfilled. Every adult knows that it’s nice to have a glass of wine or a glass of spirits from time to time to be able to unwind after a long day. It should be a complement to your life rather than something you rely on, so you have to model that behaviour. If you’re telling your kids you need wine to be able to relax and that becomes an everyday thing, they’re going to see the connection between wine and relaxation. If they talk about going to a location and you start saying that there’s no beer so it’s going to suck, then they’re going to think that they need beer to have fun. Be the parental example they need.

Don’t lie. It’s OK to tell your kids about the fun times you had while you had a drink. It’s OK to be open and honest about your past, especially if you edit it to be more teenage friendly in your language. You don’t want to be a hypocrite and it’s not your job to lay down the law and ban them from ever doing anything fun. However, you have to explain to your children that they can feel empowered by not needing alcohol to have fun.

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The Importance of Helping your Kids to De-stress at the Weekend

During the school year, weekends tend to be reserved for catching up on the laundry, running errands, and hosting family. You may also find that you spend your weekends trying to put your feet up a little bit as well. With that said, you do need to make sure that you don’t leave your kids out. You need to teach them the importance of being able to relax too, because if you don’t then you may find that their school performance suffers.

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Encourage them to Go Outside

One thing you need to do to try and help your kids is to encourage them to go outside. You need to encourage outdoor play because it’s vital to your children’s wellbeing. You may also find that it is a good way for you to help them to engage more in school.

Kids do need fresh air, sunshine, and time outdoors, as it is a natural way for them to de-stress. You may also find that it is good for their mental and emotional health too. Whether it is playing on the swings, on a skateboard, or drawing on the pavement with a pack of chalk, you may find that your kids thrive when they can spend more time outside.

Listen to Them

A good way for you to encourage your kids to relax is to simply listen to them. Hear them out when they are talking about school, and friendships, or ask them how they are doing. It’s also important for you to take time out to listen to them talk about their hobbies. If you have an older child who’s in college, and they love console games like Call of Duty. Then enquire about what they are doing, and how they are levelling up their character. You could also perhaps set them up with a Call of Duty account, as this is a good way for them to level up (at your expense and within your control) without having to worry about all the hours they need to spend working towards milestones instead of doing their college work. Little things like this can help them to get the best result out of their gaming experience, and you would be surprised at how much it could help them to feel more connected to you.

Have a Meal Together

It’s also a good idea for you to try and have a meal together. The great thing about sitting down with your child and having a meal with them is that it helps to show them the importance of family time, and it also helps them to feel more at ease. If you want to help your child even more, then one thing you can do is take note of the food that they love and then try and plan your meals around this.

This will give them a boost, and it will also help them to feel like you are listening to them more, and that you care about them. Little things like this can make a major difference to their well-being if they have had a challenging week at work, so keep that in mind.

This is a collaborative post: It’s important to note that Call of Duty games are typically rated for mature audiences due to their content. The franchise began in 2003 with a World War II setting, and has since evolved to cover various historical and modern warfare scenarios. Parents and guardians should consider the game’s rating and content before allowing younger players to access it.

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From Best Rest to Best Dressed: Simba’s Comfort Revolution

From Best Rest, to Best Dressed:

Simba isn’t just a mattress brand; it’s a promise of comfort and sustainability. Their hybrid mattresses are a sleep game-changer – and a go-to if you are looking for beds for sale, backed by their B Corp certification and robust recycling policy, which highlights their commitment to the planet. Meanwhile, their new Simba slipper collection show that Simba’s expertise in comfort extends well beyond the bedroom.

From laid back to on track: Simba’s got you covered

When it comes to comfort, Simba has made a name for itself, whether you’re catching some Zs or stepping out in style. Known for their innovative mattresses and now extending their reach into lifestyle products like the Simba Slippers, Simba proves they understand comfort across all facets of life. Let’s dive into why Simba is the go-to brand for rest and relaxation enthusiasts.

The Simba Mattress: A Sleep Revolution

If you’ve ever struggled to find the perfect mattress, you’ll know it’s no easy feat. Simba’s hybrid mattresses combine cutting-edge technology with a deep understanding of sleep science, creating a product that feels like sleeping on a cloud.

Why Choose Simba Mattresses?

Hybrid Technology: Simba’s mattresses incorporate both memory foam and micro-springs for support and comfort. The foam cradles your body, while the springs ensure proper spinal alignment and reduced pressure on your joints.
Temperature Regulation: Overheating is a common issue with memory foam, but Simba combats this with a breathable top layer and open-cell foam technology that wicks away heat.
Durability: These mattresses are built to last. The materials resist sagging and maintain their structure over time, making it a worthy investment.
Sustainability: Simba is proud to be a certified B Corp, meeting the highest standards of social and environmental performance. This means their practices prioritize sustainability and ethical responsibility, ensuring you can rest easy in more ways than one.

Simba’s Recycling Policy

Simba takes sustainability seriously, and their recycling policy reflects this commitment. The company offers a mattress recycling service, ensuring that old mattresses are disposed of responsibly. Instead of ending up in a landfill, materials from old mattresses are salvaged and repurposed wherever possible. From the springs to the foam, Simba ensures that components are recycled in an environmentally friendly manner, reducing waste and supporting a circular economy.

While Simba is renowned for its mattresses, the Simba Men’s Slippers, and particularly this open toe sandals style deserve their own spotlight. Similarly styled to the classic Birkenstock designs, these sandals take looks and functionality to a new level.

Features of the Simba Men’s Open Toe Slippers

Cork Footbed: Much like their mattress technology, Simba’s YLUR sandals feature a contoured cork footbed that provides arch support and molds to your feet over time.
Durable Materials: With a mix of leather straps and sturdy buckles, these sandals are built for everyday wear, whether you’re running errands or strolling along the beach.
Stylish Design: The open-toe design and minimalist aesthetic make these sandals a versatile addition to any wardrobe.
Comfort That Lasts: Simba incorporates its expertise in comfort into the sandal’s footbed, ensuring you feel great even after hours of wear around the house or out in the wilds.

How Do They Compare to Birkenstocks?

Simba’s Ylur open-toe sandals give Birkenstocks a run for their money with their plush, supportive footbed and sleek design. While Birkenstocks are the gold standard for casual footwear, Simba’s option is more affordable, and slightly softer underfoot, making them ideal for people looking for a less rigid feel.

Conclusion

Whether you’re upgrading your sleep setup or your footwear, Simba ensures every choice is better for you, and the environment. Explore their range today and experience a new level of comfort.

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These skills your kids learn in school might surprise you

In the classroom, your kids learn about a range of academic subjects, and the basics like how to read and write. They gain the foundations for a fulfilling life through interactive classes at school and as you help with their homework. Children are also learning many soft skills, and you may not realise the many ways your child is developing to one day be a well-rounded adult.

What are ‘Soft Skills’?

This term refers to general traits that help individuals relate better to and get along better with one another. These interpersonal skills can help them professionally in the workplace, as they get along well with coworkers, and personally, as they form friendships more easily and appreciate others. Below are four soft skills they learn in a quality educational environment.

Great Teamwork

Along with learning about numbers and spelling in school, children also learn from teamwork. They can learn how to problem solve in classes with group projects, for example, to help them become strong at critical thinking. They also learn how to work together toward a goal, such as completing a cake recipe or developing a class presentation together. Kids can also develop friendships with classmates who teach them about respecting someone else and having empathy and compassion.

Strong Communication

There are many ways to communicate at any age. That includes verbal and written. A couple of other ways that you might not have readily thought of are drawing, reading and listening. Becoming good at communicating involves all of these areas, and it is important for students to excel in this area as it will help them form connections with others. That can prevent social isolation, sadness, hopelessness, and reduced self-esteem. Feeling more confident can help kids and teens do well in academic classes as they believe in themselves.

Leadership Skills

The beginnings of being a great leader can be seen in many children inside and outside the classroom. For example, they may try many sports and need to be resilient if they do not make the team or their team does not win every game. They may also want to volunteer from a young age and be great at managing their time. These skills are reinforced in quality state and boarding schools, where the focus is on personal growth and learning.

The Basics of Manners

Good manners are important in social life; developing them can happen in school. That could be the words “please” and “thank you”, as well as keeping the door open for the person behind them, these activities show respect and appreciation for other people. Youth can also practice sharing with their classmates to teach them positive interactions with others as part of healthy development.

Summary of School Skills

Kids learn more than just academics at school. They also build soft skills, from teamwork and communication to creativity and leadership, which can prepare them for future school years and adulthood afterward. Ask your children what they are learning in class, and their responses are likely to pleasantly surprise you.

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